Brush it off

Often times we are faced with either difficult situation, difficult people and if you are lucky…both. How do you deal with these things? As we get older we are expected to be wiser. I have been through hell and back with my life. Life is short and every moment should be something that you would like to remember as memorable. Good or bad? As long as it contributed to your well being and will make you a better person. Each moment spent should be a story to tell or remember. When faced with these circumstances I just choose to either:

• See things in a positive perspective
• Put myself in someone else’s shoes
• Pray harder that I have the patience and courage to deal with it
• Shake it off and move on
• Let it slide and totally forget about it
• Give more importance to people and relationship
• Be thankful of the other blessings that I have

If you let yourself be affected by this negativity then no one wins. Everyone is on a losing end. Life and situations are hard…no one said it is easy. You have the choice…don’t move and complain when stuck in a rain or learn to enjoy and experience it. Life is beautiful!

P A T I E N C E

Sometimes your friendship will be tested. When someone ditched you because something big is happening in her life you just let it be. You may be pissed off for a while but you try to understand to the best that you can. You don’t give in to anger and think of why you value your friendship. Flaking on someone is NEVER okay. When I say you understand then that friend of yours better have a very good reason for doing so. Most often my patience is tested when faced with these kinds of situations. I give high regards to my friends and I hope that they too. So I just let this one slide and be a good friend she needs in times like this. Definitely meditating and praying for PATIENCE today.

Life is just better

If you read my previous blogs (some are still here and some I had to take out) you would know my real story. Maybe I said too much that is why I never really felt disclosing my identity here so that I can be more open and vocal about my thoughts. I made life changing decisions for 2011. Definitely things that will be for the books.

Is life better? Yes it is. I feel so blessed with many good things that was given to me for the past months. For the days I go to church and pray...God gave me what I have always been requesting. Healing from pain. I was free from it. It's been months now that I can say I am okay. Was comfortable being alone just loving the sanctuary of my home and my own solitude. I plan for myself and do things for myself and my love ones.

Though having someone would be nice.  Of course I do miss the feeling of being in love. I miss giving out surprises and taking care of someone.The times you call or text someone just to remind them of how special they are. That someone who is your driving force and support group of 1. If God grants it then I just consider it as a bonus.

Happiness is a perspective and I changed it. I try to see the good things in every bad situation. Appreciate everything that surrounds me. Made more friends and been traveling. Take care of myself more and eat healthier. I just prayed harder and been nicer.  Life has been good to me and I'm just happier. I can't complain. =)

Thank You

Lord I give you thanks for all the blessings that my friends and those dear to me have received recently. I prayed for them to get well and their wishes be granted. You have been so kind to us. I helped to the best that I can and was selfless when I did. I just wish for peace of mind and this pain to go away. There is nothing left of me but YOU ALONE. I leave everything up to YOU! THANK YOU!