Being in a relationship does not mean a person is happy neither does being single means he/she is sad. The culture that we have now associate happiness on the condition that every individual should be in a relationship. I don’t think they heard about single blessedness. People find it odd that an individual can find pleasure in being alone and free. Maybe it’s the past experiences and situations that I had where I always end up in a bad relationship. I needed time to heal and find myself whole again. I guess I am still at that stage and just enjoying the freedom I have now. Freedom from being conventional… freedom from expectations… freedom from limitations of what one can and cannot do…freedom to explore life and live it…freedom from pain…freedom from all the craziness of what a relationship brings.
Some journey can be heartbreaking. Pain and failures can make you beautiful and a better person. It can bring new possibilities. They can be life changing. It makes you strong and a better person.
Don’t get me wrong…I like being in love. I miss the feeling of being in love. I am a hopeless romantic. But there will come a time in your life where you have given away so much of yourself that you lose yourself in the process. You need time to be whole again. The way to do that is you take time off and just take care of yourself. You need to feel alive again…be excited about everything…experience life. Right now I am in love…I am in a relationship…I am happy…with ME, MYSELF and I. #happyheart
